Monday, July 27, 2009

How NLP Can Make Your Life Better

Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) involves the study of the human subconscious so that they are able to attain excellence in their life. NLP is all about influencing of human behavior by adapting certain habits and procedures. In a sense, you can benefit so much from knowing more about the power of the subconscious and the influence it can have in your life.

NLP works by identifying the essential attributes of exceptional talent, successful attitudes, and empowering beliefs. It basically involves bypassing the conscious part of the mind and heading straight to the subconscious where the subjective experience lies.

The idea of NLP was first developed in the early 1970's by a scientist named Richard Bandler and a linguistics professor named John Grinder. They concentrated their studies on successful people so that they can analyze and translate human excellence. With their efforts combined, they were able to find out just how the brain programmed itself to experience only the good things in life.

Past experiences play a big role in the decisions that we make. If we’ve been traumatized as a result of a choice we made, then chances are we will try to avoid a similar situation at all costs. Our actions are a direct response to the thoughts and memories stored inside our head. Our experience basically has a structure. When we attempt to change the structure, our experience will automatically change with it.

The idea of NLP lies on the fact that we always try to communicate, with ourselves or with the people around us. Even when we aren’t engaged in a dialogue, our thoughts are still there to tell us about what we want to think about at the moment. That is still, in fact, a form of communication. You can turn to neuro-linguistic programming when you want to enhance personality traits and behaviors. The first thing to do is to understand that our perception of reality is based on our subjective beliefs.

Sometimes, you can’t help but look at the world from your point of view even when you know that it can somewhat be flawed. This limits your reactions to the way you see the situation. This basically means that we don’t always understand our experiences and try to come up with reasons that are just too far off from the actual reality. NLP helps you find ways to completely remove this destructive habit.

NLP also teaches you to remove any form of hesitation in yourself so that you can go beyond your limits. You go into knowing about the factors that cause you to fear and see the situation in a totally new perspective. Just look at the most successful people in today’s world and you will realize that all of them were willing to try the unknown and take risks. You can increase your levels of happiness by transforming every facet to your personality.

NLP gives you the confidence you’ll need so that you can stay strong and stand firm in your mission. There will always be people who will try to bring you down when you climb your way up to the top. The questions is, will you allow them to bring you down? NLP tells you when and how to say no.

You can finally appreciate yourself and be proud of your talents with the help of hypnosis. The human mind can do so much, and it’s time for you to open the doors to the hundred possibilities.

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Don't Wait For Success To Come To You

Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking.
– William B. Sprague

You can’t always wait for success to come to you. You have to be proactive to ensure that you will attain the success you desire. Take the initiative to do more than what is expected of you each day. Be excellent in your work so you will be noticed. Then, when the opportunity presents itself, take the steps you need to make the most of it.
  • Be proactive.
  • Always take the initiative.
  • Do what you can to make opportunities happen.
Self-Reflection Questions:
  1. Am I aware of the opportunities around me?
  2. What will I do to create new opportunities?
  3. What additional tasks will I take on so I can excel in my life?

Excellence Is Not An Act But A Habit

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit.
– Aristotle

If we’re honest with ourselves, this quote will resonate within us. We are often known by what we do, not what we say. If we are consistent in our actions, especially in our work ethic, people take notice.

Don’t do a good job, do a great job! Your consistent behavior in your life translates into excellence, and that is what your employer rewards.
  • Be consistent
  • Do a great job
  • Do more than expected

Self-Reflection Questions:
  1. Am I consistent in my actions?
  2. Do I do my best work each and every day?
  3. Am I providing my employer with excellence rather than mediocrity?

Sunday, May 31, 2009

What Is The Purpose In Life?

What Is The Purpose In Life? - A Life with a Purpose

Many people live their lives aimlessly. They go through the motions of activities robotically, as if it were simply expected to perform their duties with no questions asked. Then, in time, they find themselves stopping midway, and then asking themselves why they’re doing something that doesn’t make them happy in the first place.

Many eventually question the things that they do in life. Others, unfortunately, still go through life drifting aimlessly for the simple reason that it gives them instant monetary gratification.

Your main purpose in life should be making yourself happy and content. Know that when you work on improving yourself, you will never look back with regret, or worse, with pity for yourself and what you’ve become. You need a mission that fires your innermost passion and inspires you to pursue even further. Without a goal in mind, you simply are going through a form of drudgery that eventually extinguishes your inner fire.

You have to be focused as you single-mindedly pursue the things that make you feel complete. Of course, reaching your goals is not always easy. If it were, then the world should have been completely emancipated from problems. It is a journey where you also have to make a decision on which road to take. Let your conscience guide you because even with dreams, you can never be happy if you live with a heavy heart.

A person’s life is made up of an infinite number of moments. Make these moments count and make sure that even if it is always not filled with laughter, you take something from every experience. Enjoy your relationships and take care of yourself. These are the foundations to any form of life. Who are you when you can’t lean on someone? The people around you define who you are. They will provide you with the support you’ll need during difficult times.

With each moment towards your dream comes careful planning. You need to prepare yourself for the things that may arise during the entire journey. Life is somewhat an expedition where you need to deeply think about the things that are important to you. Otherwise, if you are so careless, you will see everything fade to nothing. To be able to triumph, you need the right kind of attitude. Go for it all the way, or not at all.

When you realize what your innermost desires are, you now have your ultimate purpose in life. Your mission is to perform the tasks to make your wants a reality. It makes life worthwhile when you know you are working towards something. The happiest discovery you will ever make is that your journey reveals to you all the delights and pleasures of life. Savor the small tasks along the way because these add up to something big, something so spectacular. Your mission is to understand things and know that your experiences are there to make you the best person you can be. You can only be your ideal self when you accept what life offers and find ways to deal with it rather than cower from it.

Monday, May 25, 2009

We Are What We Repeatedly Do

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit.
– Aristotle

If we’re honest with ourselves, this quote will resonate within us. We are often known by what we do, not what we say. If we are consistent in our actions, especially in our work ethic, people take notice.

Don’t do a good job, do a great job! Your consistent behavior in your life translates into excellence, and that is what your employer rewards.
  • Be consistent
  • Do a great job
  • Do more than expected

Self-Reflection Questions:
  1. Am I consistent in my actions?
  2. Do I do my best work each and every day?
  3. Am I providing my employer with excellence rather than mediocrity?

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Success consists of doing the common things of life uncommonly well

Success consists of doing the common things of life uncommonly well.
– Unknown

Many people wonder how they can become successful.

This quote explains what becoming successful means in the most simple terms. Truly successful people have integrity, a strong work ethic, a desire to succeed, and tenacity to keep working even when it seems that things aren’t going well. They don’t give up easily, rather they keep moving forward regardless of the number of times they are knocked back.
  • Be honest
  • Work hard
  • Don’t give up

Self-Reflection Questions:
  1. Do I always act in an honest way? Do I show integrity?
  2. Do I give my employer an honest day’s work for what I’m paid?
  3. Am I determined to succeed without giving up?